Any great author, screenwriter, or playwright will ask you the same thing when you go to write your greatest work. "How does the story end?" You need to realize your story ends however you want it to end, as long as you take control of your thoughts and actions. Your story is entirely your choice.
If someone were to write the book on your life, how would it end? How would you like it to end? Do those questions have the same answer?
If you've been around very young children in the past 20 years, you've seen a Disney/Pixar movie. They are incredibly well-developed stories, and it seems fitting that they follow a system and process to write them. Couldn't you do the same for your life story? You are the main character and the writer, and the director, and even the sound effects artist if you want to be. Emma Coats, a storyboard artist for Disney/Pixar shared their "22 Rules of Story Telling". Here are a few I've edited, of course, for living your life and not writing a fictional story.
You are communicated at constantly. Phone notifications, emails, alerts, commercials, and billboard are all trying to capture our attention to communicate AT you.
[In fact, there goes my phone now!]
Everyone wants your attention to tell you or sell you something. Ignore them. They are the 80% that you typically don't need to have in your life. Listen for the people who want to show you. They are willing to invest their time, their most scarce and valuable resource, to teach you something. Maybe it's a skill, maybe a concept. Either way, that person wants to add value to your life. Remember your favorite teachers in school? I guarantee you it wasn't the teacher who lectured on a powerpoint all class and rarely took questions. It was the teacher that showed you the how and why behind what they wanted you to know.
That's what we aim to achieve in QL Mindset. I want to show you how the best in the world are living their lives to the fullest. I'm NOT trying to sell you something, that's why registration is a suggested donation. I want to show you the systems and tools to aid you in your quest to reach your summit, whatever that may be. They work for me and I know they will work in your life, too.
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How do you know when you have enough money? We all know what it's like not to have enough money, but what is the maximum you would need to fund your life? The real question behind that is how big do you want your life to be?
Money is a game. It has rules and it has strategies. Rules tell you how to play the game: Income, Expenses, Taxes, Investments. Strategies tell you how to win. Here's the strategy you should adopt to be successful at managing your money.
[Concepts from Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey, The Intelligent Investor by Benjamin Graham, and The Millionaire Real Estate Investor by Gary Keller. All those books can be found here on the reading list.]
There are so many things I "should" be doing right now:
It's easy to feel overwhelmed with what it takes to be an adult in today's society. Even more so when you try to live your life to the fullest and reach the summit of your spiritual experience.
BREATHE. Take a deep breathe, you'll be ok.
I'll be honest, 80% of what is on your "to" do and "should" do list can and should be eliminated. In fact, once you figure it out, it may only take ONE Thing you need to focus on and be great at to achieve the life you want. The rest will fall into place...
Take a second to think about where you are in your life right now.
Really take some time to think about these. You have made choices that lead to all these conditions you currently experience. For those of you who are saying to yourself, "Life is great, I wouldn't change a thing." Thank you for your time, the rest of this post is not for you.
Those of you wanting to commit to a change in any of these areas of your life, this might help.
...how would you live your life?
You and I hear it all the time. "My life would be so much different if I made more money." "I can't go, I don't have the money." "I've always wanted to travel, but I can't afford to take that much time off." I wonder if these people were given a gift of $50,000, how much their life would change?
Money doesn't change people, it only reveals and amplifies them. Someone who is a giving heart and volunteers at a shelter, will continue to do the same if they were given $50,000. Someone who is nasty to other people, will still be just as nasty with a bigger bank account.
So if money, isn't going to change your life, what will? What could be so powerful, that even by flirting with one you like, your life immediately pivots on a dime and start to get tangibly better?